How To Win Friends

I think we all want people to like us. We want to win friends and influence people. How do we do it?

For starters, the Dale Carnegie classic is a great place to start. But there is one simple way that I believe makes us more appealing to people.

I use to think I had to have something great to say. As kids, we think we have to be “cool” in order to impress.  But finally I learned…

It isn’t about being interesting. It is about being interested! There is one topic that every person loves most… themselves! If we can be interested in the other person and actually listen and ask questions, they will like us. It is really that simple.

God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth so maybe we should listen to others more than we speak. When we do that, I believe we win with people.

Make it a great day!

Rich

 

 

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